DARIMI 2114:
from ʿAbd al-Karīm Abū Umayyah —
[Machine] "Abdullah ibn al-Harith ibn Nawfal married me off on behalf of my father in the reign of Uthman. He invited a group of companions of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and among those he invited was Safwan ibn Umayyah, who was an elderly gentleman. He said, 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Tenderize the meat thoroughly, for it is more delicious and more enjoyable."'
الدارمي ٢١١٤:
عن عبد الكريم ابو اميه —
عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ نَوْفَلٍ زَوَّجَنِي أَبِي فِي إِمَارَةِ عُثْمَانَ فَدَعَا رَهْطًا مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَكَانَ فِيمَنْ دَعَا صَفْوَانُ بْنُ أُمَيَّةَ وَهُوَ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ فَقَالَ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «انْهَسُوا اللَّحْمَ نَهْسًا فَإِنَّهُ أَشْهَى وَأَمْرَأُ»