AHMAD 20219:
from Samurah b. Jundub —
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Indeed, these matters are so difficult that they can cause one of you to lose his face." Ibn Ja'far said: "These are burdens that a man bears unless he asks a person of authority or in a matter that is necessary."
أحمد ٢٠٢١٩:
عن سمره بن جندب —
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ هَذِهِ الْمَسَائِلَ كَدٌّ يَكُدُّ بِهَا أَحَدُكُمْ وَجْهَهُ وَقَالَ ابْنُ جَعْفَرٍ كُدُوحٌ يُكْدَحُ بِهَا الرَّجُلُ إِلَّا أَنْ يَسْأَلَ ذَا سُلْطَانٍ أَوْ فِي أَمْرٍ لَا بُدَّ مِنْهُ